My Pastel Goth Life

Soft hues. Sharp thoughts. A diary of velvet nights and cotton‑candy mornings.

Welcome to my digital sanctuary. I blend kawaii with dark romance, Y2K nostalgia with modern softness. Pour a tea, light a lavender candle, and stay a while. ✨

Lavender Hair + Dark Lips: Why the Contrast Works

Posted • 4 min read

Pastel doesn’t have to be faint; it can be focused. Here’s how I pair soft tones with a bold focal point so the look reads calm, not chaotic.

The trick: stay flat and matte with surfaces, and let texture (satin, velvet) do the storytelling. Keep the palette to three pastels and one anchor shade. Mine: lavender, blush, baby blue + ink.

Products, swatches, and outfit grids below. If you’re color‑shy, start at the edges—hair clip, socks, phone case—and build toward the face.